Here's an edited header from an email my wife got (finally) from her sister. My conclusions are below that. Are they valid? 
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Status: U
Return-Path: <HERsister@HERsistermailserver.com>
Received: from noehlo.host ([127.0.0.1])
by montgomery.mail.atl.earthlink.net (EarthLink SMTP Server) with SMTP id 1kW6uR4mX3Nl3qB0; Fri, 31 Oct 2008 22:45:53 -0400 (EDT)
Received: from sccmmhc92.asp.att.net ([204.127.203.212])
by montgomery.mail.atl.earthlink.net (EarthLink SMTP Server) with SMTP id 1kW6uz9W3Nl3qB5
for <MYwife@mindspring.com>; Fri, 31 Oct 2008 22:45:35 -0400 (EDT)
Received: from sccqmwc097.ops.asp.att.net (sccqmwc097.asp.att.net[204.127.203.227])
by sccmmhc92.asp.att.net (sccmmhc92) with SMTP
id <20081031232248m9200ldodle>; Fri, 31 Oct 2008 23:22:48 +0000
X-BLTSYMAVREINSERT: KPy4kq0LXkk3OIJdLt+Pp/MckysA
Received: from sister's name (12-216-225-223.client.mchsi.com[12.216.225.223])
by sccmmhc91.asp.att.net (sccmmhc91) with SMTP
id <20081031232016m91000d20ue>; Fri, 31 Oct 2008 23:20:16 +0000
Message-ID: <001401c93baf$3c047350$6401a8c0@Marilyn>
From: "First Last" <HERsister@HERsistermailserver.com>
To: "Judy" <MYwife@mindspring.com>
Subject: Fw: Kellen
Date: Fri, 31 Oct 2008 18:20:15 -0500
By my understanding, here are the times, actions and delays in the transmission from the header:
Zulu-5hr
CDT time......Zulu time...Action.....................Delay
18:20:15.......23:20:15...Sent from sister
18:20:16.......23:20:16...Received at smtp server.... 0:00:01
18:22:48.......23:22:48...Received by sccmmhc92...... 0:02:28
21:45:35.......02:45:35...Received by EarthLink...... 2:59:35 (montgomery.mail.atl server)
21:45:53.......02:45:53...Received by EarthLink...... 0:00:08 (noehlo.host)
21:45:??.......02:45:??...Received by Judy
First, am I correct?
Second, is the ~3 hour delay actually at sccmmh92 not EarthLink? I'll be trying to determine who that is after sending this.

Admin: If I left anything identifying in there, please edit it!