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Post by: kps on June 24, 2003, 12:16:31 AM
My mother passed away today at age 78, she had diabetes, abdominal cancer and Alzheimers. It's a sad day for me, but I was expecting it.

As a tribute to a lovely lady, I created a simple web page with some pictures I scanned this evening. I made it mostly for family and friends, but I do want to share with you good folks at TS, so I hope you don't mind.

http://www.ikarl.com/magda_cover.html
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Post by: whisper on June 24, 2003, 12:34:19 AM
Beautiful page. My sympathies to you and yours. Yesterday was the third aniversary of my Dad's passing yet he lives on in my heart and is always with me. May you find the peace that comes in knowing that your Mother always will be with you also.
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Post by: MamaMoose on June 24, 2003, 01:16:49 AM
Dear Karl,

May your mother rest in peace. I know at a personal level how hard it is to deal with that combination of devistating diseases. Thank you for sharing and I hope that the good memories sustain you as you grieve.

MamaMoose
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Post by: Bruce_F on June 24, 2003, 01:27:51 AM
You have my sympathy, Karl.

Both my mom and pop have passed on.

That's a very nice tribute to your mom.
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Post by: krissel on June 24, 2003, 02:07:42 AM
Karl,

That's a lovely tribute to your Mom. I'm sure she was very proud of you.

I know all of TS is touched by your loss.

Thank you for sharing.


kris
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Post by: Dreambird on June 24, 2003, 03:41:55 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss Karl...  sad.gif

I lost my Dad 13 years ago with the passing of Feb. 15... it was expected too, but that doesn't make it any easier.

You do start thinking of all the good times more and more as time passes.

Thank-you for sharing your tribute with us...
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Post by: jepinto on June 24, 2003, 05:17:45 AM
My condolences on the passing of your Mom.  What a lovely soul is shown through her pictures!

And I see why your favorite is your favorite!

A fitting tribute to a great lady.
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Post by: Diana on June 24, 2003, 06:05:05 AM
My condolences Karl,

May this and the coming days rest easy on your shoulders.

Diana
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Post by: AmicusE on June 24, 2003, 06:20:14 AM
Karl: while you will never get over the loss of your mother you will be comforted by the memories of the many happy times you shared together. God bless.
AmicusE
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Post by: pendragon on June 24, 2003, 06:55:24 AM
Your tribute, even without words, says so very much. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Peace.

Harv
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Post by: Gary S on June 24, 2003, 07:46:13 AM
The tribute to your Mom was very touching. May she rest in peace.

It is never easy to deal with the loss of a parent. May the passing days bring you peace in the knowledge that Magda was loved by you and you by her. Thank you for sharing this part of your life.

Gary
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Post by: kelly on June 24, 2003, 08:05:21 AM
My Condolences Karl. Wonderful idea for your Tribute.

I'm sure your Mother was proud to have such a fine Son.



kelly
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Post by: cdub1988 on June 24, 2003, 08:26:28 AM
kps -

Great job on the tribute.

Sorry to hear about your loss.

Our best to you and yours.

Take care.

Chris
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Post by: DaveF on June 24, 2003, 08:42:31 AM
Karl,
That moving tribute to your Mother speaks volumes about the love you felt for a wonderful Lady.  Thanks so much for sharing this moment with us.

Dave
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Post by: jepinto on June 24, 2003, 09:39:17 AM
I forgot to add, you SURE do look like your Grandfather.  In these parts, we'd say "Big Daddy spit him out."
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Post by: kps on June 24, 2003, 10:20:22 AM
I'm deeply, deeply touched by all your responses.

Thank you all!

After spending all of yesterday making arrangements, I needed a little Mac-therapy. There's still much to be done today.

karl
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Post by: Fiona on June 24, 2003, 11:40:05 AM
With tears in my eyes and a lump in my throat, I send my condolences. What a lovely tribute to a lovely woman.
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Post by: Paddy on June 24, 2003, 11:58:13 AM
Karl, my deepest sympathies on the loss of your Mom. You've created a lovely tribute to her - thank you for sharing it with us.

Paddy
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Post by: Bill on June 24, 2003, 12:11:16 PM
My condolences Karl.

Nice tribute to your mother.  


Bill
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Post by: beacher on June 24, 2003, 12:50:36 PM
I share the feelings of everyone whose posted above, Karl.  Lost my Dad in '87, and started wearing his watch (had never felt the need of a watch, since clocks are everywhere) as a daily reminder of how much I miss him.  We "bumped heads" from the time I was 7 until I turned 31 (and barely spoke to each other, except at extremely high volumes during the Vietnam era), when we started to rebuild our relationship, and over the next 13 years, became very close.  It's obvious that you loved your Mom , and that page is a nice memorial for her.  Condolences, my friend. . .
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Post by: RobW on June 24, 2003, 12:52:10 PM
Karl, my deepest sympathies to you and your family. Your tribute was beautiful. By the way, your mom raised a son who always seems willing to give his time and energy to help others. She did a nice job.
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Post by: themagpie on June 24, 2003, 12:53:37 PM
Karl, that was a beautiful tribute to a lovely lady!  You are in my thoughts at this sad time.  I hope that your future is filled with joy and many causes for celebration.

Margie
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Post by: Spartacus on June 24, 2003, 01:41:34 PM
I'm sorry for your loss, karl.

Take care.
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Post by: CyberPet on June 24, 2003, 02:03:55 PM
Karl, I feel for you. My deepest sympathies.

I can't imagine to a life without a mother, it doesn't matter that you've moved out at a young age (I was 16) and you're all grown up and independent, a mother is always a mother and something very dear to all of us.

Your mother was a beautiful woman, even in old age she had that glow some women have.

The page you made is a wonderful tribute to your mother and I'm honored that you wanted to share them with me. Thank you!
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Post by: daffy on June 24, 2003, 02:56:30 PM
My deepest sympathies.

A wonderful tribute.
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Post by: kps on June 24, 2003, 04:57:15 PM
Once again, a big heart fealt Thank You to everyone.
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Post by: Audone on June 24, 2003, 06:17:55 PM
What a moving tribute, Karl, and a testimony to the love of a son for his mother.  Your sharing of such an important part of your life is truly appreciated.
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Post by: Al on June 25, 2003, 03:42:02 AM
With deepest sympathy for you and your family on your great loss, Karl, sorry to hear about your Mother passing.

Nice tribute, beautiful pictures.

Blessing to you and your family.
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Post by: MrsLop on June 25, 2003, 05:57:15 AM
karl,

Your tribute to your Mother was a beautiful testimonial to the deep and abiding affection you had for her.
What a fitting way to express how you feel; and what a fine son she raised.
May the Angels lead her into Paradise.


Myrna
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Post by: Paul.Tait on June 25, 2003, 07:52:50 AM
Karl

I lost my Mother to Alzheimers a few years ago - she was relatively young when diagnosed with the disease - and although at the time of her death I felt I'd really lost her some years before, it still hurt just the same.

My thoughts are with you.

Paul
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Post by: jguti on June 26, 2003, 07:06:40 AM
Karl,

With great sympathy.

Thanks for sharing her life with us.  Indeed a great tribute.

May the Lord comfort and keep you during this time of need.

Joe
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Post by: kps on June 26, 2003, 09:53:30 AM
The cremation ceremony is later on this afternoon. The kind words and thoughts on these pages will be with me.

Thanks.
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Post by: gunug on June 26, 2003, 01:51:19 PM
Karl - Sorry to hear of your loss; but if anything could've served
as an introduction to someone who I didn't know your tribute
would do it!  Lovely!  Kind of wish I'd done something like this
about my folks; kind of late now!

Best wishes to you and your family!
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Post by: sandbox on June 26, 2003, 03:05:09 PM
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Post by: kps on June 26, 2003, 11:20:12 PM
gunug (John),

It's never too late, man. You can still do it for your folks. When my dad died, the internet wasn't public (still ARPA) but why should that stop me if I wanted to do it now. My mom didn't want an obituaty in the papers, that was her wish...but she didn't say anything about a web site. wink.gif

Thanks for the roses SB. smile.gif
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Post by: Dreambird on June 26, 2003, 11:37:34 PM
Gunug... you know, kps is right! smile.gif
I don't know what "state" the internet was at in 1990, except that I wasn't part of it at all until 1997...

I'd been meaning to do this for awhile now, this tribute spurred me to "get with it"...

Thus: My Dad
with more pride than I can say... smile.gif

It's never too late for these things...

kps... I hope I'm not intruding, please tell me if so... but I'd like to see more people do these things now that we have a wonder like the internet...

God Bless...
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Post by: kps on June 27, 2003, 01:00:05 AM
Intruding? Don't be silly. wink.gif No intrusion at all, Diane, glad you posted.  smile.gif

I think it's great!

--karl
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Post by: Dreambird on June 27, 2003, 01:03:04 AM
Thank-you... smile.gif
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Post by: Al on June 27, 2003, 04:39:25 AM
IAWK&D, Ganug, it's never to late.

Very nice Karl and Dreambird, thank you so much for sharing.

You two got me thinking of my brother again.  You've inspired me to go back and edit some of his pages.

Brother Bosco, I miss him.

Like Dreambird, I hope I'm not intruding, Karl.
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Post by: kps on June 27, 2003, 08:32:48 AM
Not at all, Al. I like the direction this thread is taking and if it evolves into others posting tributes to their loved ones, then that's wonderful.

So, if anyone wishes to post a tribute to a loved one, feel free to do so. smile.gif
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Post by: Al on June 27, 2003, 12:14:07 PM
thanx.gif Karl....  smile.gif
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Post by: dolphin on June 27, 2003, 01:20:57 PM
My deepest sympathies Karl....and thank you for sharing such a wonderful tribute with us.
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Post by: SnowWitch on June 29, 2003, 08:55:08 PM
My deepest sympathy to you Karl in your loss...that is a beautiful tribute, and my condolences to those of you that have had similar recent family losses.....they rest in peace....trish
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Post by: RHPConsult on June 30, 2003, 10:46:06 PM
Karl:

You are such an important member of this amazing "family" and you honor us all by sharing that lovely and moving page to your Mother's memory. Thank you, sincerely.

I have been out-of-touch with TS for a couple of weeks and only saw your posting this evening. It reminded me of the thoughful lines of Mary Frye, which i hope may offer you some solace during difficult days . . .

- - - - -

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.

I am a thousand winds that blow;
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain;
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.

When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft star that shines at night.

I am the song that never ends,
I am the love of a dear friend,
I am the child who comes to rest
In arms of Father who knows him best.
 
When you see the sunset fair,
I am the scented evening air
I am the joy of tasks well done
I am the glow of the setting sun.

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.


Mary Frye
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Post by: kps on July 02, 2003, 12:50:17 AM
All you guys and gals have been great, it's very much appreciated. Dick, that was a lovely poem.  smile.gif