First, you absolutely must remember that Adobe knows what you should have and where it should be...
Uh-huh...
Your suggestions did help... making the windows float rather than tabs went off pretty much as you described and I managed to get a workspace the way "I" like it!
Let's see if it all holds... last time I messed around it didn't even though I did save the thing under my name. If not it should come back if I click on restore that particular workspace. In theory... didn't last time but maybe I got it right this time?
I've got settings and options in different places as you mentioned I might however you did lead me in the proper direction...
Thank you!