Half Pint!
I think these two problems go hand in hand. I am going to assume you are using OS X. Make sure your songs are actually set up to download into your SHARED folder. In LimeWire, go to your preferences panel and click on SAVING. Next to directory, click on browse and work your way to your
/Users/yourusername/Shared folder. You can also specify any other place you want to save it. Maybe just save it to your desktop, once downloaded click and drag it to your iTunes library (this copies it into your iTunes music folder). Then you can delete it from your desktop.
The
! next to your song means iTunes has no idea where the file is located. Its probably doing that because you can't even find the file. Hope this helps...
Just a word of advice... Maybe start purchasing and downloading music from Apple instead of LimeWire. The recording industry is starting to monitor IP addresses and going after people who are downloading illegally through Kazaa, imesh and limewire.
The chances of them picking you out of the millions of people who are downloading is slim, however.........
Jay