note to self (again!): Never argue or even disagree with a lady! Reminds me of an office incident. Young trainee colleague was having a "discussion" with his female team leader and it (well,
he...) was getting rather heated. I called out "Ed, just apologise."
He stopped, looking slightly puzzled: "What for? I haven't done anything!"
"That doesn't matter in the least, Ed. I've been married for many years and can assure you it's quicker and easier just to apologise anyway, cos you won't win..."
General laughter and end of argument.