About those reflective stripes, here are a couple of suggestions.
As I said, I don't know much about any Nikons other than the D1x, but if you are using the SB 80 Speedlight, then I would imagine you can use the SC17 connecting cord. The goal would be to direct the light so that it is hitting the players at an oblique angle, and not coming stright back into your camera.
That way you won't get such a blast of highly directed flash and the contrast between the stripes & the players won't be as severe.
You can hold the flash away from your camera with one hand, or place it on a stand, or use an assistant. You could even consider two light sources, from different angles.
I would pose the question here:
http://www.sportsshooter.com/Another approach, which is very dependent on the ambient light is to try to use more available light during your exposure, filling in with the strobe. You could either boost the ASA/ISO or shoot at a slower shutter speed, depending on the flash to freeze the action. Some blur is OK, especially if your camera has rear-curtain sync, which means that the flash fires at the end of a longish exposure.
As for noise at higher ISO/ASA, there are some very effective noise reduction Photoshop actions available at:
http://www.fredmiranda.com/isoX/index.htmlor
http://www.pixelgenius.com/photokit/