Wow, thanks guys
I'm kinda surprised that it doesn't take a php or other script to get this working.
The second link Airbusdriver gave seems to be the best, but I do have to find that file than.
The first link is easiest but that means the webserver needs to be restarded
and I'm not sure if I can request to do that
I'm looking into it deeper, and I am really glad with the links and help given, still amazed that it takes all this to make it happen.
If the Web server is Apache, it doesn't need to be restarted. Apache reloads the .htaccess files periodically, so you just have to wait for a little while after uploading the new .htaccess file and it'll start working.