Ah... Gregg..... you caught me off guard.
Though we’re faced here with family loss on a monthly basis, it’s usually from the business end. Working in and around end of life makes one seem and feel almost callous. Systems and failures, families with little interest, and lonely people can put you in a place where saying Next is the only way to deal with it after your work is complete, knowing that right around the corner a beautiful person that you’ve come to know is losing their struggle and another battle with systems and failures is just over the horizon.
Your post demonstrates the pain of caring, a reasoned understanding and a deep commitment to family. What it lacked, that i most appreciated, was the systems and failures and unreasonable expectations that so often accompany loss.
These are hard times, especially for your dad, and your wisdom may be called upon to create an environment that keeps him active. Tears can never replace the pain, only time has that talent .... as they say, so extra attention to daily activities is crucial in many instances.
I feel your pain to the extent one can in this venue, and hope that you continue sharing your wisdom with those who’s lives you touch.
Thank You.
Take Care!
