Have you tried trashing your network preferences?
/Library/Preferences/SystemConfiguration/NetworkInterfaces.plist
/Library/Preferences/SystemConfiguration/preferences.plist
(that's the main Library, not the User one) Move these two preferences into the trash and then restart. You may have to redo some of your settings, though the default is usually a wired ethernet connection.
Also - have you power-cycled the router and the modem? Unplug both, wait about 2 minutes, then restart the modem and wait until the flashing lights settle down, then power up the router.