I think it's working fine now. They did the time-in-a-
bottlemessage thing late last night. Strange thing is that those came through
before the one with the header above. It must have been in a 'holding pattern' somewhere in or before that last, non-EarthLink server got it.
I tried to find out who has that server, but had no luck. Network Panel's Lookup started and never did anything else for about 45 minutes, the WhoIs didn't know anything either. Oh well, guess I'd better not castigate EarthLink about this... Mind you, Judy was getting pretty hot under the collar about something happening to her inbound mail.
I really don't know what I can do about this next time.
Reviewing email headers isn't that entertaining!
This kind of thing may happen a lot more than I know, it was only really noticed because these two girls are so close and talking on the phone so often!
Thanks for the help!