Dear All,
I did not want to start another thread, though this is clearly off topic.
I had a wonderful Wedding at my church last September 7th. My husband was a widower, whose late wife, of twenty years, died of a swift acting disease.
Between us, we have eight children and four grandchildren.
We thought that the most traumatic thing we were to face was another hand surgery for me. We were married less than three months when I was diagnosed with Cancer on December 3rd, 2002. I was operated on December 19th. In many ways, I feel worse for my husband, the loss of his late wife had been a real trauma for him. Now to be faced with my illness, so soon after our marriage, it just seems a bit much. He is such a good, kind soul.
I need the hand surgery badly, but since it was not life-threatening, my Surgeon and Chemotherapist said "Absoutely Not." Sometime later this Summer or Fall, I will have to undergo the hand surgery. On February 10th , my Maid-of Honor died of Leukemia, Sister Maria Frances Conway was a Sister of Mercy. She was one of the finest individuals I have ever known. She was the type of person who always made time to help a person in need. Though she was diagnosed as terminally ill, and knew that she was dying, she never told me. She didn't want to disappoint me. She was there for me at my Wedding, as my witness. It proved to be the last public function she was to perform. I started Chemotherapy and then went to her Wake. Her Funeral was on Valentine's Day. She was loved by so many people. I treasure what she said " I don't want to die dying, I want to die living (my life)." Now that, my friends is an example that I aspire to.
Now you know the who and why of MrsLop, for the most part. I want to do as much as I can, for as long as I am able. How I live my life is more important to me than how long I have to live it.
The computer will be my link to all of you.
It is my hope to be able to learn, with your help, how to do all that I need to do with a Mac. More importantly, I hope that you all feel comfortable doing so. Please, stop by and just say "Hello" and let me know how you are doing.
Thus far, it has been a wonderful experience for me. You have all shared something of yourselves with me, as well. Thank you all -