I don't want to leave this just yet. I couldn't answer from work today because they have now added TS to the "forbidden-access" list since it is a "community forum" (I actually wondered why they hadn't done that already) (the govt. does not distinguish between white hats and black hats).
Anyway, "Bill Me Later" .com (BML) is a website I signed up for at least 4 years ago. It seemed like a good thing at the time, and eBay and PayPal use it as alternative payment option. Now I realize why it was a bad idea. Basically you use it like a credit account and they send you a bill at the end of the month. You do not have to upload credit card info. However, my credit card and bank accounts offer to send an alert when any kind of transaction takes place -- charge, payment, transfer, etc. BML does not. Also, the banks and credit card companies have (I think, I hope) better security in place than BML. Anyway, BML agreed to close the acct. when I spoke with them and pointed out the fraudulent purchases.
Okay, now I mentioned before that I have been reading "Worm" and I feel sure that is how the perpetrators managed to send me 22,000+ emails, from every country domain you an think of. Could this have been a botnet working through peer-to-peer instructions? That way I would see a hundred or more (I can't count them) almost entirely from one country domain, then changing to another batch of a hundred from another country domain, with a few different ones here and there. BTW they are still coming, but not at the same rate. I "only" had 90+ in my aol Inbox, and another dozen or so in my Spam folder today. But now I am scanning them before trashing them to make sure there are no further "Thank you for your Order" ones. Hopefully they will peter out at some point.
This is really scary. I thought I had taken some good steps to be somewhat safe, like keeping one credit card with a low-limit to use online, to avoid a huge loss if it is hacked.
Is anyone else familiar with "Worm" and can address this more?
Thanks again, everyone, for your help.
Lorraine