Trying to get the hang of this iChat thang, thanks to RHP...
Got Panther so I also have AV, 'cept it's still labeled as plain ole iChat! Even in the Get Info. But if you use the "About iChat..." menu the splash screen calls it iChat AV. I think it is just a conspiracy to confuse me!
Anyway, I managed to 'chat' with RHP last week for a while. But all day yesterday and until a few minutes ago, his 'availablility' showed 'Away'. Just as I was about to send him an e-mail to suggest he 'chat' a while. The phone rings with him on the other end!
(How did he know I was about to e-mail him?! He must be one smart cookie!
) So I say,
"Why haven't you been available the last two days?" He wanted to know the same of me! But there my iChat window sits, still saying I'm here (even if not completely!). And he says his is also running and showing him as available, also. But we each were still showing the other as 'Away'.
I tried various things, even forced a re-assignment of my connection with the internet. Nothing made any difference. Finally, I went into the Address Book and noticed that I didn't have a .Mac address for him, only his earthlink one.
That's when I noticed how unfriendly the Address Book is if you haven't read the manual (there
is a manual, right? Apparently, the e-mail address(es) must relate to the AIM/Chat names. In other words, the first e-mail address must go with the first AIM name. The second with the second. Note that you can have 3 e-mail addresses but only 2 AIM names.
It may be simply that the
label assigned to each address relates to the AIM name with the same
label and the order is irrelavent. But it seems easier to keep things in some kind of logical order.
To make a long story even longer, after associating RHP's .Mac address with his .Mac chat name, both having the same
labels, I could add him to my buddy list and he immediately became a full-colored buddy, even though he was still 'Away'. I then could send him chat messages. I have only one other 'buddy' (Gary) and he is still unselectable. I do have a .Mac address but I don't think I have his real chat name, so he remains greyed out. But I somehow have his picture! Where did that come from?!