Ok Mayo...
Think I just might owe you an apology...after much searching and aggrevation, I decided to double check, throw caution to the wind ......and go back to linksys and just try running a firmware upgrade and if I cook the router, well....
It sucessfully updated the firmware.....so who knows..no smoke rolled out of that #$#%#$%$&^&%& router......
I have initially upon quick testing ( sleep mode and a restart) obtained the connection right off the bat without having to powercycle the router, or go into the network and try tinkering with the settings!! Boy do I hope this lasts!! I love my Apple, but aggrevation was really getting the best of me!!
So in closing, many apologys....(SP?) I believe you are right and I jumped the gun. I do have one question, if the firmware does not need upgraded will it not do it? Did I just "overlay" the firmware? Router firmware upgrades are new to me, so I may have fouled up...Heck I don't know....
I am so confused I got the smoke rolling out my ears!!