Nels: Aggravating isn't it?
When you have your settings the way you like them, use the bottom drop down menu (it should say Standard) and do a "Save As". Name it something you'll remember, i.e. I have a "LW Netscape" that has print background images and print background colors checked off.
The next time you print, the same settings will be preserved, and on my set up, the newest "profile" is automatically selected. If not, use the pull down to select the profile you want.